The Glass and The Mirror

Once there was a wealthy, but miserly, man who did not believe in contributing to the needs of others less fortunate than himself.  One day, his rabbi called on him and asked:  “Will you contribute to the assistance of a poor family greatly in need of food and medicine?”

“No,” replied the rich man.  “I have no desire to give away my riches.”

The rabbi walked to another part of the room and picked up a hand mirror, which was lying there.  He said to the rich man, “Look into this mirror and tell me what you see.”

The rich man laughed at this foolish idea.  After looking into the mirror he said, “I see the same thing I would see in any other mirror – a picture of myself.”

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Life Changes

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that life changes all the time and that the changes are not something to be afraid of, but something to be incorporated into the essence of your life.  Sometimes change seems terrifying, almost impossible; but if you can weather the storm, out of it invariably there is a gift.  Change can be a catalyst for something very life-affirming, exciting and special.  This opportunity is available to both you and to me.

With warmth and affection,

Rabbi Sally

Abbey

Our 14-year old dog, Abbey, died last month.  The day after she died, my 4-year old daughter Meredith was crying and talking about how much she missed Abbey.  She asked if we could write a letter to God so that when Abbey got to heaven, God would recognize her.  I told her that I thought we could so she dictated these words:

Dear God,

Will you please take care of my dog?  She died yesterday and is with you in heaven.  I miss her very much.  I am happy that you let me have her as my dog even though she got sick.  I hope you will play with her.  She likes to play with balls and to swim.

I am sending a picture of her so when you see her you will know that she is my dog.  I really miss her.

Love, Meredith

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Circle of Love

Build a circle of love, for love changes things.  It converts a shack into a palace, and turns a hamburger into a feast.  It smoothes the rocky road, and pulls down the hills.  It gives courage because it stands with you.  It makes pain less painful, sorrow less sorrowful, and joy more joyful.  It takes some of the disappointment out of failure, and puts more delight in success.

So a ray of love is what we all need – to give it and to receive it.  So, let love shine and shine and shine, in me and on you, in you and on me.

With warmth and affection,

Rabbi Sally

The Golden Telephone

While on vacation in Rome, I noticed a marble column in St. Peter’s with a golden telephone on it.  As a young priest passed by, I asked what the telephone was for.  The priest told me it was a direct line to heaven; and if I’d like to call, it would be a thousand dollars.  I was amazed but declined the offer.

Throughout Italy, I kept seeing the same golden telephones on marble columns.  At each, I asked about it; and the answer was always the same:

It was a direct line to heaven; and I could call for a thousand dollars.

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Visiting Pastor

A new pastor was visiting in the homes of his parishioners.  At one house it seemed obvious that someone was at home, but no answer came to his repeated knocks at the door.  Therefore, he took out a business card and wrote:  ‘Revelation 3:20’ on the back of it and stuck it in the door.

When the offering was processed the following Sunday, he found that his card had been returned.  Added to it was this cryptic message:  ‘Genesis 3:10’.  Reaching for his Bible to check out the citation, he broke up in gales of laughter.

Revelation 3:20 begins: ‘Behold, I stand at the door and knock.’  Genesis 3:10 reads: ‘I heard your voice in the garden and I was afraid for I was naked.’

With much affection,

Rabbi Sally

Faces

A face is a powerful medium.  We want to put names with faces so that a whole complete person emerges into our awareness.  And yet how often we measure and evaluate people in sections.

We read palms, measure feet and ankles and thighs, compare and contrast waists to hips and chests, even evaluate necks and shoulders.  But virtually everyone wants to see the face that accompanies the rest of that package.

No part of our physical self gets more attention, scrutiny, more critical evaluation and more effort than our faces!  No part of our human anatomy has more sub-groupings than our faces.

Faces have eyes, with their lids, lashes, brows and color.  Faces have mouths, with their lips, teeth and smile.  Faces have noses, with their bridges, nostrils, lengths and breadths.

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Too Short To Be Little

A favorite quotation of mine is the thought expressed by Disraeli, “Life is too short to be little”.

It can help through many a painful experience.  Often, we allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should “let go of” and forget.  Perhaps some man we helped has proved ungrateful, some woman we believed to be a friend has spoken ill of us, or some reward we thought we deserved has been denied us.  We feel such disappointments so strongly that we have trouble working or sleeping.  But isn’t that absurd?  Here we are on this earth with only a few more decades to live; and we lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievance that in a short time will be forgotten by us and by everybody.

Let us devote our life to worthwhile actions and feelings, to great thoughts, real affections, and enduring undertakings.  For life is too short to be little.

With much affection,

Rabbi Sally

A Greek Sculptor

There was once a Greek sculptor named Metros who was commissioned to make a statue to be set against the wall in one of the rooms of a Temple in Athens.  Metros used only the best and most expen-sive tools for the task; and he gave care and devotion to every inch of the statue.

A friend asked him:  “I can understand why you work so hard on the front side of the statue for that will be seen; but why must you work so hard on the back?  It will be up against a wall; and no one will see it anyway.”  The artist’s answer was:  “The gods see everywhere.”

It was a wise answer for it expresses the truth that a real artist does not create in order to impress, but to express himself.  If his aim were only to impress others, then it would have been enough for this artist to work on the visible part of the statue; but if the goal was to express his innermost self, then the work of art had to be right, both inside and out.

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